Remember the Basic Differences.

Hi Ladies,
Today I'll point out a basic fact about men that sucks in a lot of ways but has to be delt with if you want to understand men.  Men are visual!  Sure, we have emotions and feelings but when it comes to women we are primaraly visual, like it or not.  Our primary attration to a woman is how she looks to us no matter what we might 'say' to you to pacify you.  The fact is that visual is priority one.  Now, that doesn't mean we're looking for a runway or magazine model, on the contrary.  There are many guys who prefer a plus size woman; or a 'natural' woman; or any number of different types of women but for each guy there is a look.  So, if you can get past your ego telling you..."he should love me just the way I am", and be the girl He wants you to be then he'll be much more responsive to you.  And remember, he probably likes the way you looked when he was initially attracted to you.  So, if that look wasn't really the way you look and you were just putting on a show to catch a guys attention then you need to reevaluate your attitude and change your ways. 
Good Luck!